Monday, October 20, 2008

That sometimes

Sometimes I feel it is not a husband that I wanted but a child. That sometimes is when he reminds me of the fact that I am not his mother.

17 comments:

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

hmmm..

That's a little heavy! Alle?

This time.. I didn't smile.. as these words really hit me.

Sands.

Ennaalum pokunnathinum mumpu onnu punjirichittu povam -- :)

A Liberated Soul said...

Sands, now I am smiling cos u didnt smile :) How come? The words hit you? You liked it?

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

This comment is against the blog-commenting-protocols (as this is the reply for the comment in my blog)

I don't know you much right? Then how do I categorize you? hmmmmm?

But I have put you in the 10% -- with the support of the very little knowledge I have. (And as my knowledge is limited, my arguments favoring my decision are rather pretty strong) :)

And that comment there was such an explicit confession that you value and trust my judgment. Right? ;) [may I read it that way? ;) ] - Made me really glad. :)

- Sands.

PS: Could you teach me the art of writing so much in a few words? (my replies are always too long in comparison with the questions) :(

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

The feeling expressed in the post is a real serious one.

And this feeling is not created by situations... even though some specific moments remind of it.

Every other thing you write are different -- all which could be considered as the (non-existent) spoon in my blog. :)

Or I think so.... (Am I wrong?)

And, I did smile... :) at the end.. and even now. :)

A Liberated Soul said...

Sands, I am happy that you are taking time to read and understand my posts. And thank you for putting me in the 10% group of ppl. But I am not at all an intelligent person. My general knowledge is really poor. Lets not talk abt it ;)

Art of writing so much is a few words as u call it is something I do when I am struggling to write something big I have on mind. Sometimes I write pages and tear them off and end with posts as small as these. There is truth in most of my posts. But very little.

This post is one way to say that I dont know how to be a wife , but I surely know how to be a mother.

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

:) :) :)

I never said anything about the criteria for categorization. What makes you think intelligence/GK are the ones?

And it is based on MY (ONLY MY) judgement.. not on the judgement of the one who is being judged. ;) And I have reasons! (of course with limited knowledge). As you said, let's not talk about it. (itrakkokke paranju kazhinjittu?? ;) )

- Sands.
---

PS: Being a good mom is a part of being a good wife. Isn't it? [you may very well avoid to answer this quesion :) ]

Nitin said...

// sometimes is when he reminds me of the fact that I am not his mother

does that sometimes mean when
1.you can't beat him up like mother does when kids don't follow.
2. You can't see the channel of your choice ( like mom switches of Cartoon Network and also put parental control on other channel :))
3. He compares food prepared by you to 'Maa Ke Haath ka' ( At that time you hoping one day my kid will also say the same)
hahahahahha....

Aur as usual I missed something

A Liberated Soul said...

Sands, I dont have to be a wife to be a good mother. I mean this with all its meaning. I have always wanted to adopt a child even before celebrities started the trend. :)

Nitin, thanks for reading and you have got it absolutely correct this time. I guess I am writing well these days. Ahem! :)

Nitin said...

//I guess I am writing well these days. Ahem

hmm.. yeah tu aapki modesty hein .. warna hum kya the..

//Nitin, thanks for reading

Yea thanks kis liya.. pehle tu apne nahin diya ... Or is it because I came here late (2 days late).

PS : I hope u understand hindi. many times my comments are mix ( or more in hindi)

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

Hey Soul...

OOPs... I didn't express myself well.

I never meant that you have to be a wife to be a good mom.

I did not mean sp..
I do not say so..
I will not think so...

- now we are in the same page. Aren't we?

But in case you are a wife, and want to be a good one... you NEED to be a good mom too (a kid is needed by the way ;) )

To put is more precisely and mathematically.

(being a good mom*) is necessary for (being a good wife)

(being a wife) is not necessary nor sufficient for (being a good mom)

Did I express myself well now? :)

Sands! :)

*: provided a kid (adopted or not) is there.

PS1: Now you know one of the reasons I put you in 10% right? (clue: good thought even before celebrities) :)

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

You will delete that comment.. after reading.

Won't you? :)

A Liberated Soul said...

Nitin :)

Sands, expressed very well. And I wont delete the comment. You think I should?

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

Soul....

:) -- good that we understand well. :)

Let the comment be there. No issues at all!

Njan.

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

hey dear soul... :)

here is the new post...
actually this is just the description of the accident.. nothing special anyway... :)

try this LINK.


and if that doesn't load fast, then try THIS (a little less quality)

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

I had given you that link....
anyway... here is it again...

LINK (Oct 06)

heartbeaps said...

thats a good one :)

A Liberated Soul said...

Heartbeaps, finally!