Tuesday, June 10, 2008

And I ask....



When you are silent, I can hear a hundred voices in my head repeating 'Hold him tighter or you might just lose him once again'.

And I ask, absentmindedly, with a heart beating faster than before 'How much more?'

17 comments:

Nitin said...

But somebody said 'Tighter you hold ..u loose control' just like sand....

Ashu said...

Whats that ? i m perplexed. I was supposed to write so romantic post, but then pic says a different story.....

Ashu said...

but then thats D for u :))

A Liberated Soul said...

Nitin, you wont think that way when your a parent I guess. I can only guess cos I am not one yet ;)

Ashu, I wanted to write a romantic post to be honest, but it ended up in something like this. My words seemed to match a pic like this. And I felt better too. Looking at my words with an all-together different picture. What say? The weirdo me!

Ria said...

I somehow cant connect the pic wth wht u hav written! :)

Nitin said...

Sorry Lib not completley agree with u.. Its equally applicable for all relationship.. even if parents holds kids too tight.. they looses control..
Well I can also guess only.. but can also feel it.. coz once I was also kid.. :)

PS : hope its ok with u if i write Lib.. u r name is too big to write in full

A Liberated Soul said...

Ria, you will have to look deeper to understand my writings. Here I am not speaking about holding a baby literally. It can be taken in two ways:

One: As a woman how insecure she could feel when her man is silent. Not knowing what is running in his mind. So here the man is your love within you, like a baby in your womb. Like a soul, a life that is growing within you and still how insecure you feel when you realize that he is silent and you don't know what he is thinking or what he is going through-Sad/anger/upset? The helplessness when you cannot understand your man.

Second: The woman you see in the picture is carrying for the SECOND TIME. (this you can understand from the words 'you might just lose him once again'). She miscarried once before. Now her new baby is almost fully grown but silent sometimes. Here by silent I meant is not moving. You must be knowing that in the last few months of pregnancy the baby starts moving, pushing etc inside the womb. And it is very dangerous if the baby doesn't do so. Which makes the mother feel insecure and she is absentmindedly thinking if holding the baby with her hands would help or not. The word 'absentmindedly' here means that she is very well aware that if she holds the baby tight or more tighter is not going to help. But out of desperate love for the baby she stupidly thinks so.

The basic factors is both the ways you can look at this post is that:

Women are insecure most of the time absentmindedly be it with their man or their child. She might not be controlling /holding the either two close to her but is always feeling this way.

Now this is almost an explanatory post itself. But I am glad I could explain and now maybe I could get a more honest comment ;)

Nitin, I hope the above clarifies what we were discussing ;) Let me know!

Nitin said...

Prabhu aashirwad dedo ( hahahah.. ) thodi sooche ki shati idher bhi paas kardo udhar mein hein sahin (on credit altleast) itne maine nahin soocha tha ...

on first one relationship with man .. I was able to understand the insecure feeling ... but not the helpless part.

Second : first I thot in the correct way when I corelate the pic and 'once again' but I couldn't think further, so i droped it and took it in general view.

Jokes apart .. it was wonderful... u said so much in very few words.

PS : Would like to understand few of your old post..if it is ok with u.

Bubbly Vodka said...

:)

Good question. A question that desperately needs to be answered, but probably never can be.

A Liberated Soul said...

Nitin: Your welcome!

Bubbly Vodka: You said it! :)

Sayani said...

thats human nature ..."to hold tight"
and that makes the beautiful part of expression ....
:)

A Liberated Soul said...

Sayani: :)

Nitin said...

would like to understand this one "damned birth"

A Liberated Soul said...

Nitin: I am unable to read your blog. Solve it! Abt damned birth will post it in the comments of the same post :)

Nitin said...

what is the error message.... hope u r trying below address...

http://nitin-merikahani.blogspot.com/

Shekhar said...

Hit me!!! Got the essence of it. Honestly can relate to it perfectly in my current state.

A Liberated Soul said...

Nitin: Yes! Yes! I got there!

Shekhar: So its the love battle that you lost. And you still wana fight? Good luck! :)